Friday, January 23, 2009

Happy 70th Birthday, Pop-Pop!!

As I type this Pop-Pop and Mimi are enjoying their last evening on a cruise! Tomorrow is Pop-Pop's 70th birthday and I couldn't miss this opportunity to honor him for the gift he is to our family. I've told him before that his marriage to my mom was an answer to many years of prayer. I am so grateful for the blending of our 2 families. Pop-Pop has been a wonderful godly influence in the lives of all our children and 2 weeks ago our blended family had a surprise birthday party for him before he and my mom left for their trip. (Sadly, I attended with only our 2 oldest due to the yucky stomach flu hitting our home.) My step sister organized a wonderful scrapbook for his gift and had each of the children and grandchildren answer questions about Pop-Pop. At the party we sat as he read excerpts from each page. What fun it was to hear what everyone loved about him. There was a common theme: Everyone treasures the time Pop-Pop has spent playing games, telling stories, taking kayak rides, riding bikes... the list goes on and on. He has made many rich memories in the lives of his grandchildren and what a blessing it is for us as parents to watch this. I'm taking notes and hope my hubby and I can live up to the example set by both sets of grandparents...what a rich heritage we have!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY,POP-POP.
We love you!!
All 8 of us~

P.S. I thought I would share a few my favorite things the kids said about Pop-Pop:
*What one word would you use to describe Pop-Pop? One of my nephews wrote,"BALD!"
*What one thing have you learned from Pop-Pop? Odesco said,"Not to cheat in UNO or he won't play with me!"
Oh and there's Philip's humorous response to the question,"What's your favorite story about Pop-Pop" but I'd better not share it here...let's just say his kids had never heard it before Philip mentioned it and wondered why their Dad had censored this story!!
I love this picture--they both have the same eyes! This is my step sister who is a missionary in Honduras(with her hubby and 4 children)...she flew in(solo) to surprise her Dad. I missed the great unveiling but her siblings put her in a large box and she popped out! My family was blessed to have a day with Aunt Cindy during her time in the states:)

Mimi and Pop-Pop enjoying their first look at the scrapbook~

A captive audience listening to Pop-Pop's stories...

Pop-Pop and Uncle Doug

Blow,Pop-Pop, Blow!!

One of the things many of the kiddos mentioned was their appreciation for Pop-Pop's love of ice cream...whenever Pop-Pop visits there is sure to be ice cream for dessert! Doug loaned him his very own prized ice cream bowl for the occasion :)

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Happy Readoption Day...

Today was a special day in our household. It was Mercy and Odesco's official Readoption Day! The Kachs also filed their paperwork simultaneously and the Surrogate's office honored our request to be processed together. So today, both of our families celebrated yet another evidence of God's faithfulness to us together--what a gift! In our state, even though they are 'officially' adopted, we have to go through another step to have US birth certificates issued and their names officially changed. It also insures that legally, they receive all of the same benefits of our other children. Because of the help of another family who went through this process on their own, we were able to independently complete all of the paperwork without the need of a lawyer and we saved oodles of money this way. It was intimidating, but in the end, totally doable. In the next few weeks we will file for citizenship for both children and then all of our legal adoption related stuff will be completed--woo-hoo!! Today, we spent quite a bit of time standing in a crowded hallway with loads of others awaiting appointments in family court. There were a few other adoptive families there and sadly, I think we were the only ones there for happy reasons. The judge was a wonderfully kind African American man who loves adoption and considers it an honor to preside over these hearings as typically he is dealing with divorce, murder, juvenile delinquents,custody battles, and other sad scenarios. He allowed us to move freely around his court room to get the best video and pictures as we were able, he posed for pictures ,and even asked that we send him a copy . The actual hearing was a series of questions insuring that we understand our commitment to our children and that we are able to financially care for them. After he pronounced his judgment that it was in the best interest of our children and us as parents for them to remain in our care, we cheered and applauded. How kind of the Lord to make this day so special for all of us. After the hearing, we headed back to our house and continued our celebration with the Kachs by sharing a meal and ice cream sundaes! I still stand in awe of all the details the Lord brought into place as both of our families adopted from Liberia at the same time. What a blessing it is for our adopted children to share this bond and to have so many shared memories regarding their lives in Liberia and their new lives here in America.I must admit, we have had some 'behaviorally challenging' days lately and what a timely reminder it was for me to recognize once again the great cost at which He adopted me into His family.
~So grateful today for the miracle of adoption!
With a full heart!!
MamaB

Today might be Readoption Day but Mercy was remembering her Liberian roots this morning as she demonstrated how she often toted things on her head!


Odesco all dappered up for the big day!!

Mercy and Felicia during our long wait in the hallway ... decked out in their matching coats and matching smiles :)

Big sisters J and G just hanging out with Mercy and Felicia ...Felicia looks like she's had enough of this waiting stuff!

Thankfully, J packed a book which kept the kids contained for a few minutes!

Finally! 1 hour after our scheduled hearing time we met with the judge. The Kachs and the rest of our family are sitting in the area right behind us.

The Kachs during their hearing with Jenkins and Felicia~

Mercy -hanging out with P and just taking it all in during the Kach's hearing~

The long awaited visit to 'the courtyard' is here at last...that was how Mercy and Odesco referred to Readoption Day over these past few months :)

The Kach crew~

The whole gang! And, no..L did not get glasses-he was being goofy and snatched Daddy's specs for the picture!

The highlight of the day: Ice cream Sundaes!!! Nice face, P!

Mmm good!

Sweet Buddies :)!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Better Late Than Never...

Well, now that Christmas is almost a month past, I thought it was about time I posted the pictures of our many festivities. We had a wonderful time celebrating our Savior's birth with both sides of the family. How we love to spend time with our families...we are rich, indeed!

My lame attempt at a self timed family picture...I obviously forgot how tall P is--every picture I took had part of his head chopped off!!

The 4 'littles' before leaving for the Christmas Eve service...

Mercy, Odesco and L sang 2 songs up on the stage with their Children's Ministry class for the Christmas Eve Service...this is them rehearsing a few minutes before showtime...can you spot them? Later that night it struck me that next year only Odesco will be up performing since the oldest performers are in 1st grade...our kiddos are growing up(sniff, sniff!)

After the Christmas Eve service, we came home, parked the van, and walked across the street to our neighbor's house for their annual open house. We look forward to this each year as it is one of the rare times we get to 'reconnect' with our neighbors. Our neighbors graciously host our large brood and the youngest 4 especially enjoy their time with their daughters. We came home a little after 11...the kids actually slept in on Christmas morning(ie: past their normal 7am wake up routine)...imagine that!! I had fun preparing a yummy breakfast for them to wake up to.

Last year L enjoyed the addition of a "Happy Birthday Jesus" cake and requested the same for this year. I improvised by forming a cross with the breakfast cinnamon buns (the only time of the year we eat these things!)

Our completed Noel calendar on Christmas morning now packed away until next year....

Our spicy girl all revved up because she discovered a 'Slim Jim' in her stocking...and L generously gave her his as well... This was actually #1 on her Christmas list!!! I must confess, that 3 years ago when we were dreaming about celebrating Christmas with our Liberian children, I never imagined that Slim Jims would be at the forefront of our celebration. Odesco loves them too but is a little more subtle in his expressions of gratitude! Every time we shop at Aldi, Mercy longingly gazes at the box full of these things but wistfully reminds herself ( and anyone else within earshot) that we only buy them on special occasions like birthdays and Christmas:)

After a slow morning, we picked up Miss Betty Ann and headed over the bridge to my in laws' home for lunch. It was a sweet, relaxed visit...

A rare picture of Grandmom and Pop-Pop B:)

...And we were pleasantly surprised with a visit from one of Daddy's brothers and family....we even had the chance to meet our nephew's sweet girlfriend :)

Aunt Sharon (who is an expert knitter) was giving a hand to Mercy as she continued to learn this new found skill.

All 8 of us...Not the best picture but we managed to get one for the Christmas album at least.

Next stop....Mimi and Pop-Pop's for dinner. We were blessed by a visit from my brother and his 3 kiddos..I took this picture because they were all texting at the same time--oh the wonders of this techno-age!

Odesco enjoying the view from Pop-Pop's perch!

Pop-Pop, Mimi, my big brother and his kiddos :)

C was quite excited to get to Mimi and Pop-Pop's since he already knew what his gift was going to be...in fact he had picked it out and tried it on before Mimi took custody of it: the official Phillies World Series cap! P gave him the t-shirt to complete the outfit :)

The partying continues! On the Saturday after Christmas, we had our Pollyanna with my step family. The kids have such fun being together---I will say it is a bit of controlled chaos-you should have been there years ago when they were all babies and toddlers--thinking about that makes these gatherings seem tame!!

The older cousins...so calm ...

...Quite the contrast from this lively gang!!

...still one more gathering with M's side of the family a week later at M's sister's home- This is my hubby enjoying a fireside chat with his Dad.

The older cousins hanging out.

Mercy enjoying her meal with Grandmom~

Odesco and cousin Sam enjoy a game together~

The favorite part of coming to the W's house,(aside from time with cousins!) is Uncle's Paul's extensive phone collection! He has a phone(at least one, sometimes more) in every room and a switchboard in the playroom(see pic above). The kids have a blast calling each other all over the house...there is even a telephone booth(remember those things?!) in the driveway! So the adult conversations are punctuated by the ringing of phones all around us :)

Phew...well I think that covers all of our Christmas celebrations for 2008!
Thanks for checking in,
MamaB.