Thursday, August 28, 2008

Six Flags Fun!!

Every January for the past several years, the kids have participated in a Reading Incentive program sponsored by Six Flags amusement parks. If a child reads (or is read to) for a total of 7 hours (unrelated to school reading), they receive a ticket for free admission to the park. Their teacher (that's me!!) also receives a complimentary ticket--quite the sweet deal. Typically, Daddy takes a day off work and accompanies the 3 oldest along with another family or 2 to add to the fun but he was unable to get off work . This year P no longer qualified because he is too old-- he was not at all disappointed because he dislikes amusement parks so he gladly spent the day with a friend. Mercy and L were old enough to participate this year( and Odesco was too young but joined us anyhow) , so with a little nudge from MamaK, we made a day of it. No matter how hard we try to plan ahead, it always seems like we are using these tickets the week they expire- how fast the summer always flies by! Mr. S led the way in his van and took most of the older kiddos with him on the crazy , make your stomach sick roller coasters. MamaK and I were perfectly content to accompany the less adventurous crowd on the more easily tolerated rides. Both groups met up for lunch back at our vans (thank goodness for cell phones!) and when we were ready to call it a day, we headed out for dinner on the way home while Mr. S kindly kept up with the other gang. He even delivered C right to our doorstep as they enjoyed rides until the park closed! It was a great day and another freebie blessing (except for the gas , $15 parking, and pricey bottled water!!) Mercy, Odesco , Jenkins, and L thoroughly enjoyed their first amusement park experience and Mama K and I were amazed at how smoothly the day went. Another opportunity to give thanks for His favor and kindness showered upon us!!
MamaB
PS: I never did manage to snap a picture of the other half of our crowd. They were too busy standing in line waiting to ride the most popular roller coasters!



Part of the gang with Mama K.

Are we having fun yet??? Mommy with a very reluctant L as we were waiting for the ferris wheel to take off...This was our first ride of the day and I did not give him the option of sitting this one out... I think by the end he was glad I forced the issue!

Jenkins and Odesco
Whenever I see these 2 doing something like this, I am reminded of how different their lives were just 2 years ago! For those of you with astute observation skills, you'll notice Odesco has 2 front teeth in this picture. Yep, my posts are way out of order and this trip actually took place the first week of August!!

G, J, and Mercy

Odesco's first Merry Go Round ride with MamaK looking on :)

Taking a break waiting for the big kiddos to join us for lunch!

Miss Mercy enjoying her first Merry-Go -Round ride :)

G looking so grown up!!

Keeping out of trouble while waiting in line for the next ride

The boys on the other hand were not so easily contained...they chose instead to chase their hats around as we walked from ride to ride.

Mercy and Mama K...

Mercy did not hold back when she spotted one of the showers available to refresh hot and weary visitors at the park...

Our gang plus a stranger sitting between Jenkins and Mercy!

Fun in the Nerf Zone...Mama K and I had fun ambushing our children with a barrage of harmless nerf balls when they least expected it...the kids did a pretty good job of catching us off guard as well. In between ball battles we rested our weary feet!

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Taking advantage of summertime freebies!

We have been taking advantage of the summer time freebies in our area. A few days ago we went bowling with friends at the lanes around the corner from our house...it was a nice break from swimming and the game was free. We just had to pay a minimal fee for shoe rental...the kids were a riot. Especially Odesco, L, and Mercy who had never been before!
Two Thursday mornings now we have taken advantage of the free breakfasts at Chick-Fil-A. The kind worker even offered to bring water to my gang sitting at the picnic table outside...it doesn't get any better than that! Check out your local franchise--I do believe it is a corporate promotion and it goes on each Thursday morning from 6:30-10:30 am.
Oh and make sure you visit your local Staples between today and Saturday...I walked in last evening with 5 of the kiddos and received 12 bottles of Elmer's glue for free!! (2 per person) no other purchase necessary. The best part is our Staples is in the same parking lot as our grocery store so it was not out of the way at all. Can you tell I just love a bargain?!
Daddy and P and many of our friends are away for 4 days at youth camp having a wonderful time in worship, teaching , and just plain fun! This is P's second year and next summer C will be joining him...sigh ~Where have the years gone?? While it is bittersweet to see them growing up so fast, I am so grateful for these parent inclusive events which not only draw our youth closer to the Lord but draw the hearts of youth closer to their parents. How blessed we are to be at this church!
We are keeping busy with playdates, sleepovers, household organizing, and errand running. Tonight C is sleeping over a friend's house...L was not a happy camper that his other big brother was leaving and made C promise to call him before bed. Faithful to his word , C called and spoke to each of his little siblings. Thank you Lord for another glimpse of growing friendships as our days lately have been punctuated with 'opportunities' galore. I confess that my heart is growing weary of the sibling issues--especially in Daddy's absence, and I thank God for another glimpse of His hand at work!
Love,
MamaB
Another freebie enjoyed right in our very own backyard! Our neighbors generously gave us this outdoor set which is in beautiful condition. We put it to use right away before Daddy and P took off for youth camp and if it weren't for the nasty mosquitoes, we'd be eating out there daily!!

The boys' lane! It was worth it just to watch L do his 'victory dance' each time the ball finally made it down the lane. Then he immediately went over to see the score on the overhead computer display. He actually was ahead for quite a few frames. We did use the bumpers and even the big boys will admit it helped their game as well!

Luke doing his victory jig!

G and Mercy with their girlfriends in the next lane over :) Aren't they a beautiful bunch?!

While Daddy and P are away, a surprise visit to the famous local custard stand helped pass the time and filled 5 bellies before bedtime.


Today after the kids enjoyed their free breakfast, we saw the Chick-Fil-A cow as we were piling into the van...'he' was unenthusiastically lumbering through the parking to the side of the road to advertise with sign in hand (I can't even fathom how hot he must have been!!) . I asked if he would pose for a picture...he graciously obliged so everyone scampered back out of the van for this Kodak moment :)

Saturday, August 09, 2008

Odesco's eventful week!

Last Sunday when I came home from having lunch out with a friend , ( thanks to my man who held down the fort and fed the gang!), I was informed that Odesco had seriously cut his leg on a sharp corner of the trailer at church where much of the 'stuff' is stored from week to week. The kids went on to describe in detail the bleeding and the fact that they thought they could see Odesco's 'bone'. Yikes--not a comforting commentary! So after checking out the wound (which Daddy had cleaned and covered) , we decided we needed the opinion of our trusted friend, Dr. Di. Odesco and I headed over to the Di's house and the good doctor did think a visit to the ER would be the prudent thing to do. In the car before heading into the ER I prayed with our little man --that God would make him strong and courageous and grant him self control during our visit. Upon our arrival, the nurse in the pediatric area asked where Odesco was from and when I told her Liberia, she loudly shouted and enthusiastically told him how excited she was to learn this. She lived in Liberia as a missionary child, her brother was born there, and she hoped to go back there for a few weeks next year to assist at a medical clinic. She even showed us scars on her hand from a dog bite and described trudging through the Liberian bush to get some medical attention. Odesco did not share her enthusiasm and was unimpressed with this 'coincidence'. I shared her joy however and received a giant bear hug from her as we were escorted to the children's playroom to wait and wait and wait. The wait was an education in itself because the TV was on and tuned into "kid friendly" Nickelodeon. I was disgusted at the commercials and sit com geared for children--very disturbing themes on that show!...so I climbed up on the chair and turned it off. When we were finally escorted to our curtained area in the pediatric exam area, Odesco played shy. The nurse asked if he spoke English and he shook his head...little stinker :) I encouraged him to tell her his name and he mumbled it...then she asked if he would like to learn how to use the tv remote and he answered with a clear and resounding, "Yes!!"... Thankfully, as we clicked through the channels to pass the time and distract him , he quickly settled on watching a golf tournament. He was a riot and became so excited when the golfer hit a hole in one. He was incredibly self controlled but understandably apprehensive during the initial exam and later when the nurse put a gauze of lidocaine (I think!) to numb the area in preparations for the suturing to come. After his leg was numb, he tolerated the syringes of water forcefully shot into the area to clean it out. Then the stitches began...poor little fellow was hollering in pure terror as the doctor stitched him up.. Amazingly, he was able to keep his leg perfectly still but was crying out ,"Doctor, please stop...I want to go home!!" I made sure my face was in his so that he couldn't look at was was happening...I kept reassuring him that it was almost over and that he was going to be okay. Eventually he began to scream out an unfamiliar phrase over and over...I didn't understand him and wonder if perhaps he was reverting back to his tribal language...this undid me and soon I was crying along with my little man. Finally they were all done. After 4.5 hours, we were on our way home... but first we stopped at the vending machine so that I could make good on my promise of a treat if he obeyed during the stitching. Overall, Odesco did amazingly well. Even in the midst of his hollering, the nurse commented about how still he held his leg...no kicking or resisting--- this is a major evidence of God at work in his little heart granting him self control! In the car on the way home he commented ," I wish C was with me...he always helps me when I go to the doctor!" C was actually at a friend's house...had he been home, I know he would have wanted to accompany his little brother.
When we arrived home, L ran out the door visibly upset...he thought Odesco would have to spend the nite' in the hospital...he told us he prayed for his 'little' brother and was so obviously relieved to see us home. Mercy and G made Odesco a gift bag with homemade cards, stickers and other items. It was sweet to see everyone showing such concern and compassion. As you can imagine, this is not the everyday interaction we experience... but they are all growing in showing love and dying to their own selfishness. God was gracious to give me another window to view the work He is indeed doing in our midst!!
On Monday, 8 days after his initial injury, we went to our pediatrician to have the stitches removed. Of course, Odesco requested big brother, C to join us, which he did. Again, Odesco was a model patient. I wondered if the apprehension of someone else messing with his leg would send him into a tailspin but once again, he was totally self controlled and just turned his head and made funny grimacing faces as she tugged a bit at the very secure stitch job the ER doc has performed. I made sure to gush over our little man regarding his obedience...we stopped for a Frosty on the way home :)
Odesco also lost one of his front teeth this week in a wrestling match with C. He bled quite a bit but is just fine. He looks adorable with a wide gap now! What is it with our children 'helping' each other to loosen those pesky baby teeth??
So, that's the news about our little man.
I'll end with a few "Odescoisms"
** A few weeks ago at church we stopped one of our friends to get a glimpse of their beautiful newborn girl. She shared with us her baby's name which is lovely but not common at all...as we walked away, Odesco emphatically commented," Mommy, that is a strange name!!" Yes, this from a little boy whose name is just a wee bit unusual :)

** Today, C was lamenting about the many mosquito bites all over his legs (he counted something like 50!) . Odesco said," Mommy I hate mosquitoes...why did God create them? For His own glory?!? That is a great question and I was thrilled to see that he is picking up a bit of sound doctrine too!
Thanks for stopping by!
MamaB


Happy siblings welcome Odesco home with a gift bag of homemade goodies!

It's hard to believe all that fuss over a wound small enough to hide under a Bandaid!! Odesco is clutching his prized football given to him as we left the ER :)

An adorable toothless smile

Odesco was understandably a little apprehensive waiting for the doctor to come in and remove his stitches. Our pediatric practice just expanded their space and this was our first time in this room...what a great mural!

What a trouper!! Our doctor admitted that the ER physician did a great job tightly stitching up the wound...good for the wound-NOT good for her as she attempted to gently remove those stubborn stitches!

Friday, August 08, 2008

Hair Help...

Hope has come, again!! Every few months, I seem to need a 'Hope fix' to get hair advice and of course, she does a beautiful job styling Mercy's hair. Most recently, Miss Britt (who is becoming an expert plaiter) and I have noticed that it is more difficult to keep Mercy's hair in a style and we both thought it would benefit us to have a 'consult' with Hope. I so appreciate Hope's willingness to serve us in this very tangible way on a Saturday when she could be doing a bazillion other things. After looking at and handling Mercy's hair for a few minutes, Hope suggested that we try to 'texturize' it a bit through use of a relaxer designed for children. After talking it over with Mark and getting his okay, Hope and I headed over to the local beauty supply store and purchased a kit. The goal is to make Mercy's hair more manageable so that we can style it a bit easier and this seemed to be an effective way to achieve that goal. I have always been a bit hesitant to do anything of this nature because I want Mercy to be comfortable and accepting of who God made her to be . But, over the past few months, it has become more of a challenge to find a style that lasts and the actual prep time to get her hair prepared for a style was becoming more time consuming and difficult to manage. So, this certainly does seems to be the answer for now. We will have to keep it up every 6-8 weeks so we'll see what we decide to do at that point in time. I am so very grateful for my 'hair helpers'...Hope and Miss Britt have been such a means of grace to me as I seek to care for Mercy's hair. How kind of the Lord to send these 2 ladies to meet such a tangible need. Hope and Britt if you are reading this,I hope you know how much your desire to serve in this way means to me. I am so very grateful!!! Below are the pictures of that day.
I am truly thankful for modern conveniences and God's attention to provide such practical help to this clueless Momma!
Love,
MamaB

This is Mercy loosening a style in preparation for a visit from Miss Britt. Yes, she uses a pencil to loosen her braids ! This was taken before Hope relaxed Mercy's hair.


"I'm not so sure about this!!!"

"Well, maybe it will be okay!"

~Hope - hard at work~

Mercy learned the hard way why we told her NOT to open her eyes during the rinsing process !!

The neutralizing shampoo turns a tinge of pink if all the relaxer solution has not been totally rinsed from the hair... Hope was so thorough and used up the entire bottle, just to be sure!

Voila! We were stunned at the instant results...Mercy was able to painlessly glide a comb through her hair...this is quite a contrast from the typical ripping and pulling she normally does. Mercy enjoyed spying her reflection on the chrome faucet...she couldn't believe how long her hair was now that her tight kinky curls had been relaxed. Since then Miss Britt was able to braid Mercy's hair in a record breaking 2 hours....and the loosening of the old style, conditioning, and combing took a fraction of the time it normally would! I'm doing a happy dance here :)!!